Eric Berne Quotes

Awareness requires living in the here and now, and not in the elsewhere, the past or the future.

The moment a little boy is concerned with which is a jay and which is a sparrow, he can no longer see the birds or hear them sing.

The destiny of every human being is decided by what goes on inside his skull when confronted by what goes on outside his skull.

Love is nature's psychotherapy.

A healthy person goes 'Yes,' 'No,' and 'Whoopee!' An unhealthy person goes 'Yes, but,' 'No, but,' and 'No whoopee.

A loser doesn't know what he'll do if he loses, but talks about what he'll do if he wins, and a winner doesn't talk about what he'll do if he wins, but knows what he'll do if he loses.

Each person designs his own life, freedom gives him the power to carry out his own designs, and power gives the freedom to interfere with the designs of others.

Awareness means the capacity to see a coffeepot and hear the birds sing in one's own way and not the way one was taught.

It is better to be a slave to your beloved woman than a free man to the unloved one.

Some say that one-sided love is better than none, but like half a loaf of bread, it is likely to grow hard and moldy sooner.

A winner fulfills his contract with the world and with himself. That is, he sets out to do something, says that he is committed to doing it, and in the long run does it.

The eternal problem of the human being is how to structure his waking hours

We are born princes and the civilizing process makes us frogs.

Games are a compromise between intimacy and keeping intimacy away.

Every man must, in a measure, be alone in the world. No heart was ever cast in the same mould as that which we bear within us.

No man is a hero to his wife's psychiatrist.

Such a woman is called "Mother's FRIEND" always ready to give judicious Parental advice and living vicariously on the experience of others

Whatever you do, think of next morning's headlines.

Human life [is] ... a process of filling in time until the arrival of death, or Santa Claus, with very little choice, if any, of what kind of business one is going to transact during the long wait.

Losers spend time explaining why they lost. Losers spend their lives thinking about what they're going to do. They rarely enjoy doing what they're doing.