Meghan O'Rourke, The Long Goodbye Quotes
Sometimes you don't even know what you want until you find out you can't have it.
One of the grubby truths about a loss is that you don't just mourn the dead person, you mourn the person you got to be when the lost one was alive. This loss might even be what affects you the most.
If the condition of grief is nearly universal, its transactions are exquisitely personal.