I was a shy kid, a late bloomer. At 22, I was probably 16 emotionally.

The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective. You don't have control over your situation. But you have a choice about how you view it.

The more you are positive and say: "I want to have a good life." The more you build that reality for yourself; by creating the life that you want.

I believe in luck and fate and I believe in karma, that the energy you put out in the world comes back to meet you.

It's the fear of not being as good as you want to be. If you give over to that fear, it will sabotage you. As much as I can, I try to use that fear to guide me.

I think it's a very healthy thing to learn from what's happened in the past. But only if you look at what happened and think, 'How could I have dealt with that differently?' Then let it go.

I do like dating cynics - they tend to be incredibly funny.

Dating someone on the opposite end of the happy spectrum teaches you an incredible amount of patience.

I'm more cerebral than I want to be.

One thing that I do find really sexy is a girl who's good at crossword puzzles.

My nipples could cut glass.

We are now left to choose between danger and regret, neither of which can restore the lives we have lost.

Hope as evidence of life. Life as evidence of death.

Paganism is wholesome because it faces the facts of life.

Do not be misled by appearances for these are apt to be deceptive.

at least i'm talkng to myself. instead of giving myself the cold shoulder

Don’t run to the phone, run to the throne.

The key with blogging is to lay it all out there because sooner or later people are going to know what you know, so might as well be the first one to share the information and get credit for it.

There are times when two people need to step apart from one another, but there is no rule that says they have to turn and fire.

Day 1 -- Still tired from the move. Day 2 -- Everybody talks to me like I'm an idiot.