I wasn’t crying, but my heart was crying. I wasn’t feeling, but my heart was bleeding. Now I am crying, but my heart is healing. I am learning that I know nothing.

One has to learn contentment, forgiveness, and purpose on her own before the universe allows her to share her happiness with another soul.

I’ve learned to turn life’s setbacks into opportunities for creation.

Polygamy simply says, “You are not enough.

It is amazing how women spend too much time and energy scheming, plotting and seducing men when they should spend more time listening, learning and getting over desperation.

What do we do after things fall apart? Do we run to the familiar once again? Do we attempt to numb the pain with distractions? What do we do after things fall apart?

Wishes and wants do not transform a person

If you value your relationship or friendship, your ego won't stand in the way of a meaningful apology.

... the novel, arguably the author's best, had a disquieting power, like a sleeping crocodile.

Every single immigrant is part of a larger history that needs to be communicated in all its ambivalences and complexities.

If we know that our own men are in a condition to attack, but are unaware that the enemy is not open to attack, we have gone only halfway towards victory.

Each one should realize there is nothing in (us) which denies that which (we) desire.

It is often wise to reveal that which cannot be concealed for long.

As Bill Clinton said so eloquently at the convention, during Vietnam there was a chance to serve; there was a chance not to serve.

Strategy is the art of making use of time and space. I am less concerned about the later than the former. Space we can recover, lost time never.