If no one has boundaries…how can there be any transgression?

Making amends is not only saying the words but also being willing to listen to how your behavior caused another’s pain, and then the really hard part…changing behavior.

The more severe the dysfunction you experienced growing up, the more difficult boundaries are for you.

The greater the pain associated with love, the more likely a person is to be attracted to others who will inflict this pain…for isn’t this what love is? Hurt people tend to hurt other people.

It is one thing to know about your dysfunctional habits but quite another to change them.

If you are looking for love under rocks or bringing home water moccasins, you might be confusing love and pain.

Sitting on the hot seat of change requires much courage, patience, and persistence.

If we want to improve, first we have to recognize our own maladaptive coping skills, called codependency, then change.

Change will not successfully happen unless the emotional component is solved.

Putting labels on others creates a black hole of disregard where judgment thrives and schisms deepen.

Change is hard, difficult, painful, and often messy

All of us who are concerned for peace and triumph of reason and justice must be keenly aware how small an influence reason and honest good will exert upon events in the political field.

You can judge this book by its cover.

I denied Discordia and regret nothing

There is really only one true way to progress

Raise boys and girls the same way.

All human actions are equivalent... and all are on principle doomed to failure.

If Somebody disrespects me they will pay for it. I promise

It's almost like a sign of mental illness to base your self-worth on the opinions of complete strangers, you know?

Excess is excrement, ... Excrement retained in the body is a poison.

Kiss me, Kate, we shall be married o'Sunday