The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous.

Today's unspeakable perversion is tomorrow's kink, is next week's good clean fun

every relationship you are in will fail, until one doesn't

We all have our scars. That's what falling is love is all about: revealing your scars to somebody who then loves you anyway.

I have a thick skin, but I have a heart.

Ultimately life is disease, death and oblivion. It's still better than high school.

One man's blasphemy doesn't override other people's free-speech rights, their freedom to publish, freedom of thought.

I think abortion should be mandatory for about 30 years.

A lot of kids are bullied because of their sexual identity or expression. It's often the effeminate boys and the masculine girls, the ones who violate gender norms and expectations, who get bullied.

I don't write about my life in my column.

the truth is often a mixed message

Don't give up on your dreams.

Expressing truth is hard work.

People tease me about knowing somehow that Obama would put Clinton into the cabinet, and everybody would talk about a team of rivals.

I want to see the U.S become an Islamic nation.

The future doesn't frighten me, even if it threatens to be full of other difficulties.

Clothes are inevitable. They are nothing less than the furniture of the mind made visible.

We do not hear what we hear..., only what we remember.

A home from which you can be ejected at any time is no true home.