Today, monogamy is one person at a time.

If you start to feel that you have given up too many parts of yourself to be with your partner, then one day you will end up looking for another person in order to reconnect with those lost parts.

Love enjoys knowing everything about you; desire needs mystery.

Trouble looms when monogamy is no longer a free expression of loyalty but a form of enforced compliance.

Mystery is not always about travelling to new places, it is about looking with new eyes.

It’s hard to feel attracted to someone who has abandoned her sense of autonomy.

Love is a vessel that contains both security and adventure, and commitment offers one of the great luxuries of life: time. Marriage is not the end of romance, it is the beginning.

There is no neediness in desire ... there is no caretaking in desire. Caretaking is mightily loving, [but] it's a powerful anti-aphrodisiac.

When we seek the gaze of another, it isn't always our partner we're turning away from, but the person we have ourselves become.

Love rests on two pillars: surrender and autonomy. Our need for togetherness exists alongside our need for separateness.

It's our imagination that's responsible for love, not the other person.

He had read Shakespeare and found him weak in chemistry.

Cyber war takes place largely in secret, unknown to the general public on both sides.

Even though Raster Blaster was only a video game, I was learning about designing stuff. I got good at drawing.

It's OK to be different.

I don't think of myself as a dissident, and I'm more of an immigrant than an exile.

We live on the cusp of death Thinking it won't be us

I much prefer to watch actors and writers create "humanizing" moments for characters. In a drama, "humanizing" is far more impactful and powerful than "redeeming."

We should want our advertising to be compelling.

Music is the inarticulate speech of the heart, which cannot be compressed into words, because it is infinite.

When all the false self-identifications are thrown away, what remains is all-embracing love.