Whether you're scared of getting into a relationship or taking the new job or a confrontation - you have to size fear up.

The only thing you sometimes have control over is perspective. You don't have control over your situation. But you have a choice about how you view it.

The more you are positive and say: "I want to have a good life." The more you build that reality for yourself; by creating the life that you want.

I believe in luck and fate and I believe in karma, that the energy you put out in the world comes back to meet you.

It's the fear of not being as good as you want to be. If you give over to that fear, it will sabotage you. As much as I can, I try to use that fear to guide me.

I think it's a very healthy thing to learn from what's happened in the past. But only if you look at what happened and think, 'How could I have dealt with that differently?' Then let it go.

I do like dating cynics - they tend to be incredibly funny.

Dating someone on the opposite end of the happy spectrum teaches you an incredible amount of patience.

I'm more cerebral than I want to be.

One thing that I do find really sexy is a girl who's good at crossword puzzles.

My nipples could cut glass.

The real question of life after death isn't whether or not it exists, but even if it does what problem this really solves.

Bravery is measured by how hard you try, not by whether you actually succeed.

Battle is a frightening thing, a terrible thing, but once you develop a taste for it…nothing else comes close.

The issue is privacy. Why is the decision by a woman to sleep with a man she has just met in a bar a private one, and the decision to sleep with the same man for $100 subject to criminal penalties?

As a mother, the one thing that always goes through your head is, You're never enough. You never can be enough - or do enough - for your kids. It's a never-ending issue for me.

Working in the entertainment industry exposes me to every current cosmetic fad.

iv. who was it who invented size zero? who was it who promised that if you got to a certain point you would no longer be?

I'm very rarely beyond words, and I am right now.

I don't see the point of marriage. But when I need my love, I get my love.

Once Zhuangzi dreamt he was a butterfly...