...changing one's own behavior is a much more promising strategy than insisting on change from the other.

Despite all of their flaws and difficulties, these men don't want to walk out on their own lives, leave their wives and children. They want to come home.

Women are unhappy in their marriages because they want men to be more related than most men know how to be. And men are unhappy in their marriages because their women seem so unhappy with them.

...strength is not the absence of vulnerability. Strength is knowing what your weaknesses are and working with them.

We are so busy attempting to manage the result that we fail simply to run the race.

Revenge is really a perverse form of communication, a twisted attempt at repair.

The paradox of real love is that our capacity to sustain intimacy rests on our capacity to tolerate aloneness inside the relationship.

As women shut down their needs, they also shut down their sense of pleasure.

A key to the brighter future is to reassess goals, priorities and do best to make things happen.

The courageous attitude of a leader awakens the dormant attitude of followers. The dormant attitude of a leader weakens the passionate attitude of followers. Leadership determines everything.

One uncontrolled character flaw can ruin your greatest accomplishment.

I look only to the good qualities of men. Not being faultless myself, I won't presume to probe into the faults of others.

You're an idiot." "I've never claimed to be otherwise.

Too many people, right now are playing it small. If you want to be SUCCESSFUL, Live BIG, Think BIG, & make every day of your life COUNT!

One of the mistakes women have made is to romanticize life in the rose-covered cottage and then, discovering their error, proceed to romanticize life in the working world.

Be bold, be brave enough to be your true self.

The most dangerous thing you can do is know who you are.

Any blockhead can arrange a sublet. All I ever wanted was to support myself on art.